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| Вт, Янв 16, 2007 08:51pm Криста - 6317 d back | ↑↓ |
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Girls, be careful with some crazy males...
Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)
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>This is important information for females of ALL ages .
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>When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends I
>forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have
>female friends and this
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>information is too important to miss someone.
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>Please pass it along.
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>A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what
>they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
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>1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They
>are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other
>hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a
>woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
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>2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women
>who's clothing is easy to remove quickly . Many of them carry scissors
>around specifically to cut clothing.
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>3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their
>purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard
>and can be easily overpowered.
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>4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between
>5:00a.m . and 8:30a.m.
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>5) The number one: place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store
>parking lots. Number two: is office parking lots/garages. Number three: is
>public restrooms.
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>6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
>quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about
>getting caught.
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>7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year
>sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.
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>8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because
>it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you
>isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.
>9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or
>other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
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>Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the
>attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys
>you're not worth it.
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>10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following
>behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or
>stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time
>is it, or make general small talk: "I can't believe it is so cold out
>here", "we're in for a bad winter." Now you've seen their face and could
>identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
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>11) If someone is coming toward you , hold out your hands in front of you
>and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said
>they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be
>afraid to fight back.
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>Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
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>12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it
>and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and
>holding it out will be a deterrent.
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>13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by
>outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch
>the attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the
>upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught
>told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape
>her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle
>strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places
>as hard as you can stand it; it hurts.
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>14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a
>particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is
>extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
>want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is
>that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing
>trouble and he's out of there.
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>15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and
>bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on
>them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure,
>and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
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>16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of
>your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd
>behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!
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>You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the
>guy really was trouble.
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>1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If
>you are close enough to use it, do!
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>2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans. If a robber asks for
>your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from
>you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse
>than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER
>DIRECTION!
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>3.If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail
>lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The
>driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
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>4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating,
>working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list,
>etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the
>perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to
>your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR,
>LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
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>a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF,
>repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything,
>wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back
>seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out
>and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.
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>5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking
>garage:
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>A.) Be aware: look around you,
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>look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
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>B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger
>door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their
>vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
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>C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the
>passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car,
>you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
>guard/policeman to walk you back out.
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>IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
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>6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are
>horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially
>true at NIGHT!)
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>7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS
>RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And
>even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a
>zig -zag pattern!
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>8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you
>raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well
>educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women.
>He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his
>vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
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>************* Here it is *******
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>9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a
>crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police
>because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her
>"Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door."
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>The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a
>window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run
>over. The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way, whatever you
>do, DO NOT open the door." He told her that they think a serial killer has
>a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes
>thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified
>it , but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's
>cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.
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>Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby ----This
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>e-mail should probably be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory
>was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they
>profiled the serial killer in Louisiana.
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>I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a
>life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to
>send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives,
>sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.
(c)
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| Ср, Янв 17, 2007 03:54pm Е. - 6317 d back | ↑↓ |
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>>в чикаге не помешает.
Это место я вообще не рассматриваю как пригодное для проживания людей.
>>obichno NE nasiluyut...
Правда. Есть такое опнятие как "психология жертвы".
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| Ср, Янв 17, 2007 04:07pm Dervish - 6317 d back | ↑↓ |
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"психология жертвы".
da, te zhe chernie eto chystvuyut pochti na "zhivotnom" yrovne ( i ne tolьko y zhenschin 
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 06:26am КУ - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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сли бы я чувствовала, что меня могу изнасиловать, никогда бы такую хе..ню не наплела. ">10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following
>behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or
>stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time
>is it, or make general small talk: "I can't believe it is so cold out
>here", "we're in for a bad winter." Now you've seen their face and could
>identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target."
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 08:53am Е. - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Вопрос типа "Не подскажете среднюю продолжительность брака у енотов" должен однозначно сбить насилинька с толку, деморализовать его, раздавить мощью интеллекта и заставить ретироваться.
А вообще КУ, совет совершенно правильный. Суть маневра - усновить подобие контакта по своей инициативе с цель разрушения образа потенциальной жертвы. Человек заговорил первым - значит он не боится, значит не жертва.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 09:02am Дед Пихто - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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А теперь пропомни ка Е, скока раз за весь срок пребывания в америке женщина заговаривала с тобой первая на улице. етот демарш может быть истолкован только как приглашение к последующим отношениям, что в свою очередь ещё больше спровоцирует нападающего.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 09:17am Е. - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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>>скока раз за весь срок пребывания в америке женщина заговаривала с тобой первая на улице.(Дед Пихто)
Было, но не часто, это верно. Впрочем к ситуации это не относится, я ведь ни на кого не нападал.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 09:31am Липатов - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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--- я ведь ни на кого не нападал.---
А кто его знает,нападал или пока нет.
Советы про дробовик,темы с вопросом легко-ли застрелить и т.д.наводят на размышления.......)))
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 10:08am КУ - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Разрушение образа потенциальной жертвы.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 11:17am Е. - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Липатов, раз уж тема тебя так увлекла - помогу тебе устроиться работать в тир если хочеш. Мишенью.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 01:31pm [Аноним] - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Е, да ты и сам за мишень содешь неплохо.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 01:57pm Coleen - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Разрушение образа потенциальной жертвы.(Ц)
я где-то читала, что оказавшись в такой ситуации,женщина должна по возможность хладнокровно! сказать,типа, ну начинай, когда кончишь - скажешь;
тем самым ``разрушить образ потенциональной жертвы``...и т.д. ,но это же каким внутренним контролем нужно обладать...
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:05pm КУ - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Вот именно. Так сыграть, это просто потом дома холодным потом будешь обливаться. 
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:08pm Dervish - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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типа, ну начинай, когда кончишь - скажешь(c)
Osobenno eto klevo, kogda nasilьnikov neskolьko.....
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:09pm ЧудоФан - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Самая лучшая фраза будет, резко развернуца и спросить "Слушай, мужик, у меня тута револьвер с пятью потронами, у тебя шестого нет случаем -- очень надо? я заплачу если что". ГЫ
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:10pm Dervish - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Posle takogo GЫ sotryasenie mozga garantirovano...imho...
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:10pm ЧудоФан - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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***типа, ну начинай, когда кончишь - скажешь(c)***
особено ето клево, когда мужу ето дома говориш ГЫ
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:11pm Е. - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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>>"Слушай, мужик, у меня тута револьвер с пятью потронами, у тебя шестого нет случаем"
А перед тем всадить тот самый патрон в мужика? Нэ-эсти...
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:15pm Липатов - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Запарожец,кризис?
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:15pm Dervish - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Myzhiki ny esli vi vse znaete, to perviy otdel dolzhen seryozno proveritь vashy trydovuyu knizhky na predmet formi dopyska na chicago.ru
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:28pm LILITKA - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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u menja, na dvoix podrug napadali s celju iznasilovanija, no ne odnu tak i ne iznasil.
Sluchaj pervij: on nakinulsa na neje s zadi v parke i povalil pitajas srivat odezdu. Ona proorala emu "minutochku! minutochku!", on soobrazil, chto eto emu raz na pjatij (!!!) ona:-nu, chto ti, sovsem bolnoj, rvat odezdu...daj sama snimu" ( tekst primernij, davno eto bilo). On, posle takogo otkravenija vxodit v stupor i ona, podnjavshis s zemli zarjadila emu s nogo rovno mezdu glaz i ...."ruki v nogi"
Sluchaj vtoroj osredi belogo dnja na odnoj iz centralnix ulic viprigivajut iz mashini bratki i zatalkivajut eje vo vnutr. Potom vidimo ej podsunuli platochek s "aramatizatorom" i "vkljuchilas" ona tolko v nomere gostinici s 4-mja rebjatkami sportivnogo teloslozenija.Sljezi, sopli ne pomogali, rebjata vipivali i obeshali skoro s nej sojedinitsa. Ona nachinajet ix prosit "dlja xrabrosti"...potom poshla Ashe odna butilka..Ashe odna....potom pokushat....poka dveri otkrivali to drugu, to officiantu kljuchi zabili v dverjax i ona.... slinjala
Povezlo? Da, no oni pitalis, chto to delat.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:31pm Dervish - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Slychay 2y-sovsem ne pravdopodobniy....
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:46pm ЧудоФан - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Небось вторым она заявила что в такой дешевой гостинице пусть он друг друга трахают
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:49pm LILITKA - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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nu izvinteljajte..pravdopodobnij ili net, no devku otkachivali mi nedelju. A gostinica, kstati, v samom centre Rigi. Bilo u nas takoje( ~91-95 godax), kogda devchenok v mashini zataskivali
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:51pm Dervish - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Nepravdopodobno ne to, chto zataskivali , a to chto...ne dolyubili
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 02:54pm ЧудоФан - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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так может они не для секса девченку воровали-то? Может им небыло кого в подносилки пивасика с водочкой?
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 03:13pm Липатов - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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---A gostinica, kstati, v samom centre Rigi.---
Вот она-цивилизованная Прибалтика!!!Че твариться -то прям белым днем......Ужасть.....жесть......
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 03:22pm [Аноним] - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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лилитка, хватит русские сериалы на ночь смотреть.
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 03:48pm Е. - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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>>Ashe odna....potom pokushat.... i ona.... slinjala ( LILITKA)
Смотри, и прокатилась, и выпила, и покушала... все на халяву.
>>no devku otkachivali mi nedelju.
Еще бы, столько выпить..
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| Чт, Янв 18, 2007 03:55pm Липатов - 6316 d back | ↑↓ |
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Ода!
Ты знаешь о чем говорить......!
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